How to create a happy and strong family
Everyone dreams of a happy family. In such a family, even the guests are comfortable. But how to create it should be figured out. Let’s identify several foundations of strong families:
– you should talk and plan the birth of children. If they are not there;
– try to break the habit of bad habits, for this, it is desirable to conduct introspection;
– be each other’s advocates. The wife should protect her husband, and the husband should justify and find positive motives for his wife’s behavior. The couple must be confident in the relationship and this protection will be the confirmation for each of them;
– do not allow moments in which the child is offended by one of the parents. Try to explain the behavior to the child so that he understands why everything is happening and he does not have to arrange a silence;
– you need to tell your partner that you love, respect him, and be proud that you have chosen and live with him. Use compliments to your loved one. Get in the habit of highlighting the positive qualities of your spouse and thanking them for it;
– to form and distribute responsibilities. It is imperative to tell what you are doing during the day so that the illusion of inaction is not created if a woman is at home all day with a child;
– do not pay attention to the age difference;
– you cannot hold a grudge against parents, against a husband, against children. This only leads to the destruction of the family;
– you also need to strive, support each other in matters of business and career, give advice, help;
– you shouldn’t be financially dependent on your parents, they also need rest;
– to throw out emotions should only be to each other. Not to parents. They worry very much about the child, regardless of the age of her son or daughter;
– you should talk to each other as much as possible. Discuss all questions, problems, desires, goals, etc. Allocate at least an hour for communication every day;
– It is very important to communicate gently with your partner. It is better to develop a habit and always, even when a partner is annoyed with something, speak to him in the kindest and most pleasant voice;
– discuss and agree on a joint pastime;
– you need to trust your partner and put up with his choice if he is not what you wanted;
– it is also important not to criticize each other. Criticism only destroys relationships. You need to understand and forgive, even if something is wrong.
Read the recommendations seem simple, but at the same time, they are effective in application. The most important thing is not to forget about them and follow them constantly. Then the family will have more understanding and love for each other.
How to avoid family conflicts
Family is the most important thing in the life of two loving people. And the way they relate to each other will depend on whether they will be together or will soon scatter in different directions. Subsequently, at least one of them will regret and suffer about it.
Getting rid of our internal irritation
Conflicts occur in every family, even if the spouses love each other too much. You know, in the family hustle and bustle, where problems lie in wait at every step, it does not happen that a family lives perfectly.
To get rid of irritation towards your partner, you need, firstly, to leave one of you in another room and wait a while and, of course, occupy yourself with something. If this does not help, because every family has a certain state of mind, then you need to go outside, take a walk, and refresh your thoughts, and someone will do a short run around the house or in the park, etc. An individual way of relaxation is suitable to moderate your ardor. Someone can go to the pool, another (if he lives in his house) will go to chop wood, etc. In other words, with physical unloading, all this irritating state turns into calmness. This, in most cases, applies to men. Wives, for example, in a state of nervous oversupply, can wash the dishes, do the cleaning of the house.
Is it possible to keep the family together if the spouses do not understand each other?
In some cases, a man tries to subjugate his wife to himself, that is, he wants her to always prepare delicious food for him at his click, clean up the house, look after the children, etc. This is the main problem of husbands, as a result of which, the wife cools in love for her husband and the end what? Yes, parting and maybe forever!
Guys, do not make such a mistake ever, believing that your wife will not go anywhere from you. It’s not the case, unfortunately. Because a female creature is so fragile and their thinking is such that after a few grievances, they seek consolation, and, at the moment, another man turns out to be the comforter, this is a statistic, which you can’t do anything about it and although she doesn’t care who this one is a comforter at that moment, the most important thing is to understand her.
Therefore, in our modern society, man and woman are forced to be equal in their rights and decisions. You must solve any problem together and reckon with the proposals on an equal footing. But if neither one nor the other disagrees with any decision, then one of you needs to yield, and in the next situation change roles, then it will be fair and without scandals. But if one of you is still stubborn by nature and does not yield, then three options will help here: go to a psychologist, and try to yield to one another, or find such a loophole,